Fake Friends…
When they say, “It’s too good to
be true!” then probably it is true!
Couple of days back, I have seen
someone deleting me from her Facebook profile… For a minute, I felt bad... And
then I could sense; it clearing is not going to do much with my life, it just
makes her look pathetic and immature! Let me tell you how it started! From the
time I met her, she came to be a really strong person, loved me and trusted me
in every decision! She met my friends and mingled with every one of them, and
made it sure, she told everyone that she have found her soul mate! She brought
small gifts and never took no for an answer! Gave me compliments all the times!
She never kept a single stone un-turned to make me feel I mean the world to her!
And then one fine day, she suddenly cut me off, and pointed the blame back to me
so that she never has to feel guilty that she is knowingly using me!
After that I started analyzing,
and found how stupid I was! She wanted my help! She had done everything to make
me feel secure! When things went against her will, she have always been angry
or given me silent treatments! She has never followed her promise and has
always given convenient excuse why she is so busy to get together with me! She
have ruined my every successful and happy moment (yeah, including my Birthday!)
just to get that lime-light over her! Clearly, she was manipulating me for her
selfish needs! Suddenly I realized I had made a fake friend!
I am a believer! I believe in
friendship! For me it like, “once a friend, always a friend!” But, when it
comes to fake friends, I would rather say “I rather have enemy who slaps me on
my face, than friends who stabs me in the back!” It is painful at time when people
just utilize you for their selfish needs. But it’s a giant relief that you are save
from such sabotage! I realized, this temporary grief is for long term happiness.
God himself must have removed such friend from my life so that I can move ahead
and progress.
Someone has rightly said, “Despite
few bad apples, the harvest of your relationships will prove to be pie worthy!
Do not be bitter in the betrayal of these people, but allow the experience to
make you a bit better each time!”
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